There’s a certain kind of chemistry that makes you forget logic. The late-night conversations that stretch into 2 a.m., the “we just clicked” moments, the I don’t know what it is, but I feel it kind of pull.
It’s easy to confuse vibes with confirmation. Because when someone feels right, it’s tempting to assume God co-signed it. But sometimes, what feels divine is just a surge of dopamine.
The thing about peace is, it’s quieter than excitement. You can’t always spot it in the first few dates, but you can sense it in the absence of confusion.
God doesn’t make you guess His intentions. If you’re constantly decoding mixed signals or wondering where you stand, that’s not peace, that’s anxiety dressed in potential.
“For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace.” — 1 Corinthians 14:33
Sometimes, the most spiritual thing you can do is ask yourself: Do I feel peace, or am I just addicted to the thrill of being wanted?
Distance Reveals What Emotion Hides
Discernment doesn’t happen when you’re deep in the talking stage. It occurs in silence.
When you step back, stop romanticising, and actually pray, “God, show me their heart, not just their Instagram,” things become clearer. You start to see patterns, not potential.
Distance doesn’t mean disinterest; it means wisdom. You can’t hear God over the noise of your own excitement.
Confirmation, Not Confusion
When something is truly God-sent, it aligns your peace, purpose and your boundaries.
You don’t have to chase clarity or convince yourself it’s right. Love from God doesn’t make you compromise your values to keep it alive.
If it’s constantly taking instead of nurturing, that’s not a divine connection; that’s distraction.
“You will know them by their fruits.” — Matthew 7:16
The fruits don’t lie.
The God-Tested Connection
Here’s the thing: the right person won’t pull you away from God; they’ll make you want to know Him more.
They won’t make you shrink spiritually just to fit the relationship.
You’ll pray more, not less. You’ll heal more, not hide.
It won’t just be vibes. It’ll be vision.
Final Reflection
Discernment isn’t cynicism. It’s wisdom.
It’s knowing that not every spark is a sign, and not every connection is a covenant.
When you surrender your love life to God, you trade confusion for clarity, and instant gratification for lasting peace.
Because the truth is, God’s love stories always make sense in hindsight, but they never start with chaos.
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