Adeniyi Fatima Adetoke is a Nigerian music journalist that started her career with NotJustOk. She works as a writer, content…
Is Your Frontal Lobe Fully Developed in Your 20s? Science Says It’s More Complicated Than That
We’ve all heard it before. “Your frontal lobe isn’t fully developed until you’re 25.” But is your frontal lobe fully…
African Natural Hair and Wigs: Why It Doesn’t Have to Be One or the Other
The conversation around African natural hair and wigs has become increasingly common in recent years, especially as more women embrace…
What Do We Really Owe Our Friends?
I’ve had a few friendship breakups over the years. Sometimes the situation that led to the fallout was complicated and…
Love, Growth and the Beauty of Letting Go
There’s a quiet truth I’ve come to embrace in this season of my life: love does not have to last…
What If Everything You Believe Isn’t True—And Why Does That Feel… Easier?
There comes a moment in life, quiet, unsettling, yet strangely liberating, when you begin to question everything you’ve ever believed…
What Thoughtful Gifting Teaches About Love and Presence
Valentine’s Day has a way of making people express love rather than practise it. Suddenly, we’re asking the wrong questions….






